Sexual healthcare is SEXY

By Papa PrEP

In the ever-expanding world of sexual liberation and positivity, it’s important for to make sure that we’re on top of our sexual health just as often as we are underneath the men of our dreams. Being in the know about your sexual health provides not only knowledge and security for yourself and your partners, but positively impacts the way you can navigate sex, dating and relationships. Self-care isn’t just getting facials (get your head out of the gutter, MISTR) and mani/pedis. It’s also protecting yourself and partners by knowing your status. 

Regular STI testing and the use of PrEP pills like Truvada and Descovy makes having sex SEXIER. Knowing that you and your partners are on PrEP and tested, signals to each other that you’re invested in making sure that the sex you have is as protected as it is passionate. You don’t want to have to sit on the sidelines taking antibiotics as everyone else has fun because you’ve not been making time to get regular STI testing. STI testing is free in many states and when you’re on PrEP, it’s mandatory in order to continue taking it. 

The idea of getting on Truvada or Descovy may make you apprehensive. That’s okay, but examine that apprehension and recognize that stigma around gay sex, PrEP and HIV have contributed to it. Maybe you’re afraid to start because you think “I’m not promiscuous enough to need PrEP.” The problem with kind of thinking is that protecting yourself from HIV, makes you responsible and informed. It only takes one time to transmit HIV and it takes less than most tops last in the bedroom to get free online PrEP.

Don’t shame yourself for taking the time out to keep yourself and your body as ready as you can for anything. REMEMBER, If you stay ready, you don’t have to GET ready!