Wondering what size condom is right for you? Many people may opt for the largest size, just to be safe. But bigger doesn’t necessarily mean better. Worse, it can slip off during sex. To find the perfect fit for you, you’ll need to follow a few steps.
Why Condoms Still Matter
Some people frown upon using condoms because they think they reduce sexual pleasure, or they feel embarrassed having to wear one. But condoms are extremely important. They prevent pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections (STIs), like gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes, and genital warts.
Can HIV Be Prevented by Condoms? Protection That Works
More importantly, though, condoms protect people from HIV. They create a barrier between you and your partner, preventing the exchange of bodily fluids during sexual intercourse. While many people may not find condoms comfortable, the World Health Organization estimates that using condoms correctly could have prevented 117 million new HIV infections between 1990 and 2017.
How to Choose the Right Condom Size
How do you know what size you need, though? There are a few ways to find out. One way is to measure the width of your penis and the width of the condom when you lay it flat. A large-size condom fits people with a penis width between 56 and 60mm. A regular size fits people with a penis width between 52 and 56mm, and a small size fits people with a penis width under 52mm.
Another way to choose the right size of the condom is to simply experiment with different brands. As is the case with clothing, condom sizes differ from brand to brand, and your perfect fit is the one that stays in place and feels the most comfortable. If the condom slips off, though, it’s obviously too big, and if it feels too tight, try the next size up.
Also, keep in mind that most condoms are made of latex, which can cause an allergic reaction for some people. If this is a concern for you or your partner, try non-latex options.
How Tight Should a Condom Fit? Fit = Comfort + Safety
Remember that your condom should fit snugly, but it shouldn’t be too tight. If it’s too tight, it may break, cause discomfort, or restrict your circulation. There should also be a little space at the tip to hold the semen.
How to Know If a Condom Fits Properly
As you can see, the size of the condom is important. But how do you determine the right condom size?
A Quick Fit Check
Here’s a helpful breakdown so that you know how to get the right size condom.
- Snug but not tight
- Doesn’t slip off
- Space at the tip for semen
- Little to no extra material at the base
Condom Safety and Storage
If you’re new to using condoms, one of the things you’ll need to think about is condom safety, their expiration dates, and how to store them.
Do Condoms Expire? Expiration Dates and Damage
Yes, condoms expire! The material that condoms are made from degrades over time, making them a lot less effective at preventing pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. Check the expiration dates, and if they’re past due, dispose of them.
Latex or polyurethane condoms have a shelf life of about five years from their manufacture date. Spermicide and polyisoprene condoms have a shelf life of about three years, while lambskin and sheepskin condoms have a shelf life of about one year. Did you know there are also F.D.A.-approved external condoms for anal sex?
Besides checking the shelf life and material, look for signs of damage as well. If a condom is brittle, dry, or sticky, you should replace it immediately. The same goes for a torn or leaky wrapper. While the condom may still be effective, it’s not worth the risk.
Storing condoms properly is important as well. They need to be kept in a cool, dry place, away from sunlight, like in a drawer next to your bed. Harsh UV rays can break down the material faster. Don’t expose condoms to excess heat or moisture either. And try not to keep them in your wallet or in your pocket for long periods. If you plan to carry condoms with you, find a small carrying case that will keep them cool and dry.
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